Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Freshmen dude ..

Being a college student is extraordinarily diverse from a high school student. Before, your friends are at hand to assist you with your home works and projects. Now it is different, you separate ways, and because of that, you have to effort for that matter by yourself without the help of your associates.

Here it goes college life on the go. You will meet up lots of NEW in each day you will move toward into the four corners of your classroom. New adjustment, new circle of friends, new environment, new experiences, new tasks, this is more serious than before. You do not need to sit back and slow down; you need to study harder so that your career plan will grow. This is not a game.

July 16, 2009, it has been a month in view of the fact that I cross the threshold of college life. At this time, I believe that being a college student is a serious duty. This is the phase where the people around you or your mentors will practice you to boost your professionalism. Nevertheless, it is not your mentors alone, you also need to be professional independently for you to be able to geared up yourself in the next episode of your life or in other words to the communal world of life.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

How to be loved ?

Falling in love is easy. This is something that you can control. You meet someone who has all that you have been looking for. They are nice, honest, and fun to be around. They are also very attractive. Your love grows the longer that you know them. But do they love you? There are certain things that you can do to increase the chances of becoming loved.

Love Yourself

You can't expect anyone to love you if you can't even love yourself. Before you get into a serious relationship, you may want to work on your self confidence. No matter what society says, you are great the way you are. Feeling bad about yourself is just a waste of energy and time. You'll find that you are much happier once you allow yourself to love who you are.

Be Open to Love

If you want love to come to you, you need to be open to it. You have a much better chance of someone falling in love with you if you are sweet, nice and outgoing. Don't fold your arms or turn away from people you're talking to. Often the most important part of communication is non-verbal. Sit closer to the person that you're with. If you do, they will feel more comfortable about being around you. When you sit far away with a frown on your face, you are showing someone that you aren't ready to love.

Be Honest

When people are asked what they want in a relationship, the majority mentions honesty. For most people, this aspect is at the top of the list. A relationship built on a core of honesty has a much better chance of lasting a long time. When you're honest with your partner, or with a potential mate, you are showing respect to them.

It can often be very hard for people to be honest. In a way, they think that it's easier to lie. If you put the effort into being honest, it shows them that you care and that you are willing to make it work. If you want to be loved, you should strive to keep honesty in your relationship.

Be Yourself

As much as you want to be loved, that person should love you for who you are and not who you pretend to be. Anyone can pretend to be everything that his or her mate desires, and while this can lead to a relationship, it won't be fulfilling. This is an extension of honesty. Don't just tell the truth with your words, tell the truth with who you are. Do you like watching cheesy horror movies? Don't hide it. You should want to be loved by someone who has those same interests. This will help you achieve a deeper and more fulfilling love.

If you love yourself, are open to love, are honest, and are being yourself, there's no reason why someone can't fall in love with you. Follow these rules and you will have a much better chance at the relationship that you dream of.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Special Friend :)

Friends. What comes into your mind when you hear the word “FRIEND”?

For me, friends are individuals who treat you as their brother or sister. The people who will not laugh or hurt you, and if they do hurt you they try hard to make it up to you. The people who stop you from making mistakes, but they help you when you do.

But what if a friends turns into more than friends? It is a tough situation, right? You never know what will happen to your friendship once he/she discovers that you fall in love with him. Another thing, you feel hurt when you know that your “special friend” loves someone else. You are in good spirits when he/she is telling you something incredible about the person he loves. For the reason that you are the friend, you need to smile so that he will not feel awkward. However, when the friend is not around, you feel heartbreaking and dishearten, it comes to a point that you cry a river.

Nevertheless, it is not always like that. There are some instances that you love each other but both of you are mutually blameworthy with your feelings. But it feels beautiful when you both discover that you have fallen in love with each other. Moreover, some possessions like this go to the subsequently stage, and make their rapport turn out to be deeper.